I am celebrating my 5 year cancerversary this month!!!!
Each year after I was diagnosed with melanoma, I decided to do something new, different, or out of the ordinary. My first year I asked friends to join my Relay for Life team. Many friends and coworkers walked for the team and several die-hards (Melissa, Mary & Paula) even spent the night on a cold football field to raise money for cancer research. I promised them I would never do that again.
The following year I ran a 5k. The next year I went to Hawaii. Last year, I ziplined through the rainforest. When I look back over the years, I realize I really wasn't doing anything for others. How did going to Hawaii help others fight cancer? I'd like to think that a melanoma survivor going to the most beautiful beach in the world and still being able to enjoy the sun SAFELY set a good example for others. I'm pretty sure that is a stretch.
This year I wanted to do something for others as well as being a little selfish. I am running a 10k for the first time ever and several dear friends have signed up to run as well. A dear friend has even designed shirts for us to wear that say PEACE, LOVE, & SPF on the front. I'd like to think that this is not a truly selfish bucket list item. Maybe with all these shirts- someone will say, "I need to have my ugly mole looked at" or "I need to put on more sunscreen". Boom- saved someones life.
I also plan to donate my hair to Locks of Love. I had hoped it would be long enough by now to donate but I'd look pretty funny with a buzz cut. My hairdresser assures me I will have plenty by December.
I am also going to get a tattoo. Well.....another tattoo. I've had great fun thinking about what I should get. I think others have had fun, too. One person suggested I have a mole tattooed on my scar in honor of the one that was removed. Chris thinks I should have STFU tattooed on my hand. That's more of a personal joke but I bet most people can get it. Another friend said I should have my rectangular skin graft site made into an iPhone since it looks like I left one on my leg while in the sun. Since I won't be getting my tat until after my run, I still have a few weeks to decide. I am open to suggestions but it has to be happy and tasteful- no Melissa I am not having your face tattooed on my tush. Yours either, Shannon.
I also plan to give out sunscreen. This sounds a little looney in my mind but that is one way I feel like I can say- I did what I could to help others. Now- I just need to know where I can get a box of sunscreen at a good price.
Another bucket list item is to speak up. Ha- like I don't already do this. I guess what I mean is to be more vocal about my experience and how it can help others. While I don't plan on protesting at area tanning salons- I do plan on telling others the importance of sunscreen and seeing a dermatologist. Don't be alarmed if I tell you that you have an ugly mole that needs to be seen by a doc. On second thought- do be alarmed. I will only tell you that because I care. However, please refrain from showing me any moles that you are worried about. My opinion is always the same. Get it off your body as quickly as possible. The way I look at it, scars are great stories only survivors get to tell. I'd rather hear about your scar than your tan line.
I saw your blog posting on Facebook! I am now a follower. Your blog is funny. I love a lady with a sense of humor! I will put you under my local blog reel on my blog! I look forward to reading more. Your Facebook statuses are always funny, too :)
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